Procrastination: Itâs Not Laziness â Itâs System Overload
If youâre stuck staring at a task⌠endlessly scrolling⌠making another cup of tea⌠or distracting yourself with anything but the thing you know you need to do⌠youâre not lazy.
Youâre procrastinating for a reason.
At The Mind Works with Craig, we donât see procrastination as a time management issue. We see it as a symptom of internal conflict, nervous system overload, and protective shutdown.
This isnât about fixing your schedule.
Itâs about understanding your system.
Why You Procrastinate: The Real Causes Beneath the Surface
Most self-help advice says:
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Break the task into smaller steps
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Use a timer
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Just get started
But if youâre here, youâve already tried that. And it didnât stick.
In the Mind Works model, procrastination happens when three forces collide:
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Direction Failure (Thinking Collapse): Your mind spirals into overthinking, perfectionism, or fear of failure.
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Rhythm Breakdown (Meaning Collapse): The task feels too big, too meaningless, or out of sync with your energy.
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Fuel Depletion (Feeling Collapse): Your nervous system is too drained to engageâeven on simple things.
Itâs not a productivity problem. Itâs a physiological and psychological mismatch between demand and capacity.
The Tower Block and Procrastination: Where Are You Stuck?
Your Tower Block level determines how procrastination shows up:
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Level 4â6: You overthink, overanalyse, and spiral into perfectionism.
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Basement: Emotional weight and identity conflict make every task feel threatening.
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Dungeon: Systemic overwhelm makes the task feel pointless or impossible.
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Void: You donât even care anymore. The idea of starting feels irrelevant.
Understanding your Tower Block position helps you choose the right starting point for recoveryânot another to-do list.
The Parts of Self Conflict: When Internal Roles Collide
Procrastination is often the result of a Parts of Self battle:
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Your Ideal/Future Self wants progress.
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Your Protective Self wants safety.
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Your Actual/Current Self feels caught in the middleâexhausted, ashamed, and stuck.
This internal tug-of-war leaves you frozen, frustrated, and self-critical.
Why Pushing Harder Makes It Worse
Forcing action when your system is in shutdown often leads to:
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Emotional backlash (frustration, tears, anger)
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Increased avoidance
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Further nervous system depletion
This creates the Procrastination-Shame Loop:
Freeze â Self-blame â Panic â More Freeze
Itâs a protective cycleânot a moral failure.
How The Mind Works Can Help
We donât give you another productivity hack.
We help you regulate your system and reconnect with your capacity to act.
With our approach, youâll:
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Stabilise your nervous system first: Using tools like HRV tracking, Tower Block self-assessment, and breathing practices.
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Decode your internal conflict: Using the Parts of Self model to identify whatâs pulling you in different directions.
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Rebuild your Direction, Rhythm, and Fuel (DRF): So that action feels possible againânot overwhelming.
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Use real tools that meet your Tower Block level: From micro-movements to structured pause-breathe-weigh exercises.
We help you work with your systemânot against it.
Next Step: Letâs Break the Cycle Together
If youâre stuck in procrastination, self-blame, and overwhelm, this is your signal to stop fighting yourself.
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You donât need more pressure.
You need rhythm, clarity, and fuel.
Letâs rebuild your capacity to actâstep by steady step.